You don’t need to use pick up lines to attract women. Natural attraction is so much better, when you know how to let your attractive qualities come through, women are instantly attracted, and they stay attracted longer – it’s like love at first sight. You need to learn how to be unaffected by other people’s opinions of you so that you let your attractive personality naturally shine through.
Women don’t reject you because you didn’t have a cool enough story to impress them. You get rejected because you subtly give your power to them… Somehow, you look for their approval on a super deep level, or you “flinch” around them which let them know you think that you have lower value than they do. When you learn to be unaffected around other people, you will be able to act freely in ways that are naturally attractive to women. You will be a true alpha male, and when you exhibit dominant behaviour other people will be convinced that it is who you really are. Women will say things like, “it was love at first sight…”
You will be able to walk up to a woman and claim her as yours in a way that she finds powerfully attractive because you don’t hesitate, and get her to reject you. You will never run out of things to say to women. The only reason you run out of things to say now is because you view yourself as lower value than them. You never run out of things to say around a nine year old niece…
Natural attraction comes down to whether you believe you are higher value than the woman or not. I don’t care what you say. Guys fail to believe in their own higher value, even though they constantly approach women, or they are affirmation junkies. This is because in any given situation, there are two realities competing with each other…
You might have a reality that says you are a cool alpha guy, but you are still too used to living in other people’s realities. So it’s not that you don’t think you are higher value, but you are referencing yourself from other people. As soon as you approach a woman, you immediately get sucked into her reality where she dictates that you have lower value. Instead, you should pay attention to your own, stronger reality so that your naturally attractive personally will come out.
As an exercise, before going out to meet women, practice speaking your mind freely for 3 minutes straight, while 3-5 of your friends completely shoot you down and berate you. This is the kind of practice that will allow you to speak freely around women without feeling like you need to depend on impressive lines to keep the conversation going.
Summed up, the key to natural attraction, are first to believe you are higher value than a woman, and two, live in your reality – stop referencing yourself based on other people’s opinions of you. If you want to learn more about naturally attracting women, visit my blog now!
Caleb Clayton is a professional dating coach and social circle expert. He is the author of, “Social Circle Game: A Guide To Dating And Social Mastery,” He consults guys one on one and helps them build a large social circle, make more friends, and date more women. Learn more about social circle game at http://www.TheCollegeCupids.com