By Gyna Jean-Pierre
CSMS Magazine
Hold the cards until you sleep with a man. Use this time to define the boundaries of your relationship. Take things as fast or as slow as you feel comfortable with. The woman determines the pace of the relationship, depending on her goals and the individual situation. You control how rapidly the relationship accelerates.
Think of it like a car: Some women are like how rods and some are more like hybrids. Each car has its pros and cons, but the most important thing to remember is that each should be treated respectfully. The hybrid will be slower, but it is more fuel-efficient, cost-effective, and eco-friendly. The hot rod looks better, and will more much faster, but it burns more gas, is louder, and it will definitely be more expensive to maintain.
Men must know which type is best for them and then choose their ride accordingly. No matter what, if you’re good to both cars they will be good to you. Woman must identify what kind of car they are and not try to be something else. If you’re a hybrid and pretend to be a hot rod, you’ll get nowhere with your man. Be true to yourself, your goals, and your desires. Remember not to mistreat either vehicle, yours or his, because it cause irreparable damage.
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